Thursday, July 28, 2011

A Season of Change

That sums up our life lately. A lot of big changes going on. I've had several things to blog about but haven't made time (sorry....I was reading a great book so any free time was being devoted to that. Check out the book list.) So here's a summary of what's been happening lately:

  • Firstly, our brother-in-law made it safely home from Afghanistan last week! We all got to go to the welcome home ceremony and I was so honored to be there. It was such an emotional day, you could physically feel it in your body. It hit me hard as we were on our way and the streets of the small town the ceremony was being held in were lined with people waving flags to greet the motorcade of soldiers as they passed. It felt like every American flag I saw that day was hanging in their honor. Such relief I felt for my sister. Even driving to their house for lunch with friends and family afterwards felt surreal. For the first time in a year I wasn't going over there to pick up her girls or keep her company.

  • And a change in scenery- Jon finished the landscaping in the back and it looks gorgeous. I had something like this in mind but honestly didn't think it would be affordable or would turn out this nice. Its perfect.

  • A biggie, which most of you probably know by now is my parents are moving this Memphis. My dad got a job offer at Grace Evangelical Church that suited his gifts and talents to a T. Its an associate pastor position so he'll be teaching an adult Sunday School class, assisting/mentoring a younger pastor on staff in men's ministries and doing pastoral care (funerals, weddings, hospital visits, etc.). They sold their house her in Johnston in a week so that was a huge stress reliever. Everyone keeps asking me if I'm sad and the answer is...not yet. I know I will be (and shed the first tears about it last night during a slide show at a going-away party at their old church.) But I'm an optimist. Its my natural reaction to only focus on the positives. I love having an excuse to travel a lot and thankfully we'll have a warmer place to visit during the loooong winter months in Iowa. And I think in the long run it will bring us closer--a lot less "quantity time" but a lot more quality time.

  • And subsequent to the previous change, I'll be quitting my 2 day a week job at America's Family Coaches to stay home full time (since my mom provided one of those days of childcare). I'm thankful for this transition as I only went back to fill in the gap a bit financially, but Jon's job is going well and prayerfully will continue to get better with each passing month. I have to admit, I finally understand why moms look forward to the start of school every year as the days with two very active boys are long. So I'm excited for the routine of 4 day preschool to help a bit.

  • And perhaps the biggest change of all will be arriving around February 23, 2012. Hopefully of the female variety this time ;)


  1. EEEEEEE! I had to read your last little bullet point twice!! Congrats!!! I hope it's of the female variety too!! Give big hugs to your parents for us. Sad to see them go :(

  2. Oh me oh my!! What's in the water!?! LOL Julie Spader is preggo with her baby #2 so is her sister, now I am reading you are!! :) Congrats!! :)

  3. Congratulations Haverlee!!! So excited for you!

  4. Great post! Praying for you with all these changes. And I love, love, love the pic of the kids on the stairs! Adorable!

  5. Julie VanderpoolJuly 28, 2011 at 7:16 PM

    Congrats Have! I hope so too!! Hopefully see you on tuesday!

  6. I can't believe I found out before your mom told me. We are thrilled for you! And yes, we are hoping for the female variety as well, but you do the boy thing so well!!

  7. So excited for you!! Hope its a girl, too, but boys run in our family!! Just ask Amy!!

  8. Yay! Congrats!! Looks like we'll both have new little ones right around the same time...I'm due Feb 29! :)


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